I have been that person who has to have everything for ‘just in case’ . I wanted to always make sure that I don’t fall short of anything when I need them. I didn’t like the feeling of lack so I would always try and have more than what I actually need and held onto things for ‘ just in case’.
Goodbyes were never easy. I have gotten my heart broken and I was so scared to let go. I literally begged for my relationship and today I can’t believe that it was me. I have learned that anything /anyone I was scared of losing had to be taken away for me to learn that I was always enough. I have come out on the other side better and stronger. I was too naive to think that my happiness depended on someone or something when all I needed was right within me.
As I try and think back I realize the reason it was so difficult for me to part with things or people was because I had a scarcity mindset and I wasn’t even aware. Now that I have learned that there is so much abundance surrounding me it is such a relief that I don’t have to carry around burden of things or people. Life is not a zero-sum game. Each one of us have enough of what we need.
Once you have that abundance mindset it doesn’t matter who has what because you know you have what you need and you also know that you are exactly where you are suppose to be in life. I don’t anymore have to have everything because I know the universe has enough for everyone. Things and people will show up as and when we need them. So I would want to carry around unnecessary burden of things and people that do not fit in this season of my life.
If you have been living with a scarcity mindset I am here to remind you that you don’t have to.
I can not express in words how freeing it is to live light and to let go of the scarcity mindset. I am in peace with myself because I am not defined by who or what I have in my life. Even if I were to lose everything and everyone I have, I would still have me and God. Yes I am God girl. If I have God and myself I know the right people and the things will show up at the right season in my life.
If you feel that you are not enough and that you are always scared of losing then I would suggest that you get to know yourself better. The fear that you are carrying around is just an illusion and the moment you let go your life will completely turn around and smile at you.
There is so much to life and when you learn to not carry around unnecessary burden you will see it. I wish I could put down in words that feeling you get to live with when you free yourself with the unnecessary load.
It is all about the perception you have towards life. It all depends on your mindset whether you see scarcity or abundance. Remember that you don’t have to cling and whatever you need will reach to you at the right time. Are you holding on because of the fear of scarcity? Well the good news is you don’t have to so let go.
Live in abundance!